Are we really victims of failure?
Or are we in fact gifted with an alternative ending, that exceeds an opportunity that we would not have considered?
We are kind of trained as though we only have something to loose. What about what we have the potential to gain?
Consider, when things do not progress in the way we intend them, that possibilities then expand for us to pursue a course of action we would not have previously considered. Potentially resulting in and even greater height of success than our original intention.